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David Dawson posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, December 25, 2023
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I first knew John as a coworker at Perot Systems in the late 90's. I had just transferred into the same group as he. And immediately we had to start traveling every week to Boston, Massachusetts, in support of a contract. In that period of time, I became friends with John. We were very different. He enjoyed a steak, a beer and a cigar. My favorites might have been hamburgers, a Dr. Pepper and a Snickers. He sometimes referred to himself as a "redneck", which cracked me up. I didn't know what I was… he said "yuppie". :) But our common interests were that we saw eye to eye on politics and faith. We both saw the state of our society in dire need of the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. I always admired his no compromise stance with the Truth of God's Word. John Gilley had a hilarious sense of humor. I remember one of his stories was the time when he flew with some people on a private plane for what was supposed to be a fun trip to Dallas. They apparently had a significant amount of trouble landing at Love Field due to pilot inexperience. John said he was so afraid that you could not have driven a straight pin "some place" with a sledge hammer. And that, John said, was the time Southwest Airlines saved his life, on his trip back to Oklahoma. He always gave me many laughs every time we talked. He is the one who inspired me to start doing my own home improvements. John was a man who was real, a straight shooter. What you see is what you get. He was very devoted to his family and faith in God. He always kept me and my family in his prayers over our son's medical situation through the years. He was one of the most giving people I've ever known. John was a true friend. He was a loyal person. And I was so shocked and saddened when I heard the news. But we are not without hope. We are not without God. Because of the finished work of Jesus Christ and because of John's faith in that work, we know that he has eternal life. And we know that we will all, once again, be reunited. People tend to think of death is "ceasing to exist". Well that is NOT the case with John. Karen and family, I know this has been so hard for you. I know that you know these things. But keep your focus on the reality that John is more alive and well today than ever. He has only changed his address. For now, John will be missed very much. But eternity is forever. Glory to God. Until we meet again, bro. Gilley.
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Mase Falealili posted a condolence
Thursday, October 26, 2023
John was a man I could trust without reservation.
He was truly unique and one of a kind. I believe God carefully chose everyone lucky enough to cross his path so we could all experience the Father's goodness through John. I thank God for the precious memories I shared with him. I hold dear all the nights filled with meaningful conversations, jokes, and laughter we shared. They will be deeply missed but, more importantly, always remembered. I can't help but feel a deep sorrow because I don't understand why you were taken away.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.”
(Proverbs 3:5-6)
“The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; Blessed be the name of the Lord.”
(Job 1:21)
There are many words to describe John: righteous, faithful, loyal, loving, wise, strong, hospitable, respectable, and honest. John exemplified what it meant to be a husband, a father, an uncle, a teacher, a leader, and a fisher of men.
I am profoundly grateful to have known John because he taught me what it truly meant to be a man. He made it a point to set aside the trivial and face difficulties head-on, making no excuses. If there were more men like him in the world, without a doubt, it would be a better place.
It's all too common to see people become a product of this world. John showed me that the true joy on earth lies not in what is seen or stored away but in the unseen that brings meaning to our lives. Thank you, John, for showing me that the true treasures in life are invisible to the eye and are enjoyed through our souls and spirits.
I wish I could express how much you inspired me; it was more than you could have known.
John, I love you. I will miss you and remember you forever as a good man, a man who walked the narrow road, and quite simply, a man of God.
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A Wife's Eulogy posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 25, 2023
Being strong is so overrated.
When you have to say goodbye to someone who has been your whole world, you're as weak as a newborn kitten and your heart is truly broken. Just the same, we have all come together today to say goodbye to John Gilley, who WAS a strong man. He would be so honored that you have all come here.
He had quite a unique relationship with everyone in this room and with those who could not be here. He considered the word "friendship" very seriously, and I can tell you he was proud to count all of you as his friend. He was always the guy you could count on to be there (usually early), he was the most giving person I knew, and without question, he was always the guy who would listen. He had more integrity in his little finger than most people could muster in a lifetime. He was honest as the day is long, he did not mince words: "Say what you mean, mean what you say", and he had more compassion than any two men I knew.
In all of our years together, he never ceased to amaze me with a new colloqialism - he was the KING of colloquialisms. It was the trademark we all knew him by. Even now, as I stand here before you, "I'm as nervous as a long-tailed tom in a room full of rocking chairs" (in case you didn't know what colloqialism meant).
John always talked about how he loved his childhood and would go back and do it all again, if he could. Scripture tells us that we are to enter the Kingdom of God as a little child. Anyone who knew John knew him to be a man of God and I am certain he is rejoicing as a child before the lord today. Gatherings like this funeral today are for the living who are left behind, but for John, he is in paradise and will wait for us to join him.
He was, in every sense of the word, a man's man, a true friend, the most loving husband, a wonderful father and uncle, and so much more.
In these past few days, I have spoken to so many of you and have come to realize what a huge impact John made, especially on the men in his life. I will always cherish knowing that about him and I am so very sorry that you have lost your "friend".
My husband, my better half, my confidant, flesh of my flesh, My Very Best Friend - I will for the rest of my days miss you and love you and remember you, and look forward to when we can be together again.
Thank you all so much for being a part of John's life, our lives. I truly believe we are all better people for knowing John Gilley. And as John would say, "Glad you got to see me."
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Swetha Chintakindi lit a candle
Monday, October 23, 2023
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I can’t express how much John meant to me over the years. He always brought so much light into the lives of those around him.
My condolences to you and your wonderful family. It was a joy to work with John. I will never forget the warmth his laugh and jokes brought to the team members each and every day.
He was a wonderful person, always there for us , ready to help us. Always performed an extra bit in all his work.
You will be missed every moment of our life.
Stay Strong Karen, we are always there for you.
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Kaitlin Roller posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2023
Uncle John's sudden passing left me in shock and disbelief. I had always respected him greatly, and I know his absence will be felt by the world. My heart aches for his family, and I hope they can find some comfort during this difficult time.
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Thursday, October 19, 2023
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of John Gilley
Thursday, October 19, 2023
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Dan & Sandy Bleuel planted a tree in memory of John Gilley
Thursday, October 19, 2023
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Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Sandra Bleuel posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2023
John was a fine young man taken way too soon.We spent many Saturday nights having dinner that he & Karen had prepared together.He was a very knowledgeable man .We had great conversations with him everything from our childhoods,marriages, movies,actors,songs,the Bible& yes even politics!Dan was thrilled every time John invited him to go fishing!
John was always so kind to reassure me that he would watch over Dan as they were night fishing.John will be fondly remembered as a good man that was a GREAT FRIEND. Dan & Sandy Bleuel
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Wednesday, October 18, 2023
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Theresa Loughley posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2023
John and Karen had the love of a lifetime, some people can live their whole life and not have what they did, so I’m grateful that God had brought them together. John truely was a good husband to Karen and a good father to Natalie and a good uncle and mentor and friend to many. He was a man of God for sure and may not be physically here and y’all should be comforted in knowing he is with the lord and he will forever be remembered.Now the Lord gets to see you in love and spirit.
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Michael & Sharon Pollock purchased flowers
Wednesday, October 18, 2023
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Michael & Sharon Pollock
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Although we've only known John & Family for 12 years, we feel we've been part of their family. Sure will miss our fishing trips.
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Michael & Sharon Pollock planted a tree in memory of John Gilley
Wednesday, October 18, 2023
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Although we've only known John & Family for 12 years, we feel we've been part of their family. Sure will miss our fishing trips.
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Sanjana Gopal lit a candle
Wednesday, October 18, 2023
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My deepest condolences to you and your family on the unexpected demise of John. John will always be missed.
John has always been kind and helpful when it comes to work. We will miss him every moment.
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Monday, October 16, 2023
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Anonymous purchased flowers
Monday, October 16, 2023
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With heartfelt condolences,Jon & Mamie
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Jon Moore posted a condolence
Monday, October 16, 2023
John Did Not Need More Time
The Bible says to love your neighbor as yourself.
John did that better than anyone else I have ever known.
The Bible says to love God above all.
John once told me that the gift of salvation was enough for him. He asked nothing else; moreover he expected nothing more.
The Bible says to show grace to others.
John exceeded everyone I know in that also. Is there anything he would not do for anyone? Within a short time wherever he was he befriended every neighbor he met.
The Bible teaches forgiveness.
Several times I pointed out to John that offenses had taken place unto him. It was obvious to me that shots had been fired !! Time to strategize and attack. He never took the bait and settled each quarrel with dignity, respect and love.
The Bible says to provide an inheritance to our loved ones.
Here again John excelled not just in money but by his behavior in earthly matters.
The Bible teaches us to let our yes’ and no’s be true.
If John said it, he meant it. I never knew him to quit on anything he started. That was true while he was my employee; and especially true when he was working at my house. In fact it is difficult to look anywhere in my house and not see something John did for me.
The Bible tells us to mourn with others when appropriate; and, rejoice with others when appropriate.
When a deadly cancer was the report I received from the oncologist, John stood by me and helped me fill promises to my customers. No matter how shaken I was, he remained strong until I was strong enough to stand again on my own.
So you see John did not need more time; but, rather, as usual John finished his race right on schedule. He cleared every hurdle in his path. Yes I wish I had had more time with John as do all that knew him. I never got enough of being in his company—never !! Now because of John’s example my walk with God is beckoning me to rise higher so that I can receive what I know John Gilley as already heard— “Well done thy good and faithful servant” !!
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Jan Powers purchased flowers
Sunday, October 15, 2023
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So sorry for your loss, take care and my thoughts are with you! Jan
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Jan Powers planted a tree in memory of John Gilley
Sunday, October 15, 2023
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So sorry for your loss, take care and my thoughts are with you! Jan
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Saturday, October 14, 2023
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2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Thursday, October 19, 2023
Thompson's Harveson & Cole Chapel
4350 River Oaks Blvd.
Fort Worth, Texas, United States
8173360345
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19
October
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4:00 pm
Thursday, October 19, 2023
Thompson's Harveson & Cole Chapel
4350 River Oaks Blvd.
Fort Worth, Texas, United States
8173360345
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20
October
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2:00 pm
Friday, October 20, 2023
Sunny Lane Cemetery
400 SE 29th Street
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
405-677-8384
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John Gilley
1963 - 2023
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